The renderingtemplate of these controls are defined in the folder CONTROLTEMPLATES within the HIVE folder, more specifically in DefaultTemplates.ascx using the RenderingTemplate MultipleLookupField.
So, navigate to:
c$\Program Files\Common Files\microsoft shared\Web Server Extensions\12\TEMPLATE\CONTROLTEMPLATES
Create a new .ascx and put the following code in there:
<%@ Control Language="C#" AutoEventWireup="false" %>
<%@Assembly Name="Microsoft.SharePoint, Version=12.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=71e9bce111e9429c" %>
<%@Register TagPrefix="SharePoint" Assembly="Microsoft.SharePoint, Version=12.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=71e9bce111e9429c" namespace="Microsoft.SharePoint.WebControls"%>
<%@Register TagPrefix="SPHttpUtility" Assembly="Microsoft.SharePoint, Version=12.0.0.0, Culture=neutral, PublicKeyToken=71e9bce111e9429c" namespace="Microsoft.SharePoint.Utilities"%>
<SharePoint:RenderingTemplate ID="MyCustomMultipleLookupField" runat="server">
<Template>
<SharePoint:GroupedItemPicker id="MultiLookupPicker" runat="server"
CandidateControlId="SelectCandidate"
ResultControlId="SelectResult"
AddButtonId="AddButton"
RemoveButtonId="RemoveButton"
/>
<table class="ms-long" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0">
<tr>
<td class="ms-input">
<SharePoint:SPHtmlSelect id="SelectCandidate" Width="300" Height="125" runat="server" multiple="true" />
</td>
<td style="padding-left:10px">
<td align="center" valign="middle" class="ms-input"><button class="ms-buttonheightwidth" ID="AddButton" runat="server"> <SharePoint:EncodedLiteral runat="server" text="<%$Resources:wss,multipages_gip_add%>" EncodeMethod='HtmlEncode'/> </button><br>
<br><button class="ms-buttonheightwidth" ID="RemoveButton" runat="server"> <SharePoint:EncodedLiteral runat="server" text="<%$Resources:wss,multipages_gip_remove%>" EncodeMethod='HtmlEncode'/> </button>
</td>
<td style="padding-left:10px">
<td class="ms-input">
<SharePoint:SPHtmlSelect id="SelectResult" Width="300" Height="125" runat="server" multiple="true" />
</td>
</tr>
</table>
</Template>
</SharePoint:RenderingTemplate>
Now go to SharePoint Designer and find your field.
Now add the attribute TemplateName and put it's value to MyCustomMultipleLookupField, like the following line:
<SharePoint:FormField TemplateName="MyCustomMultipleLookupField" runat="server" id="ff2{$Pos}" ControlMode="Edit" FieldName="ccc" __designer:bind="{ddwrt:DataBind('u',concat('ff2',$Pos),'Value','ValueChanged','ID',ddwrt:EscapeDelims(string(@ID)),'@ccc')}"/>
Issue an iisreset and take a look at your form.