Question : Is c++ com server my solution?

I got a project which i already created managed wrapper for a c++ dll.

However, it turned out that the c++ dll never callback my .net application because it never load on same memory space with another c++ application that send data to c++dll.

Pls: see this link for all project goals
http://www.experts-exchange.com/Microsoft/Development/Microsoft_Programming/Q_26337828.html

I am doing some research no found something call Com Server would this technology works for my situation?

Answer : Is c++ com server my solution?

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