Ok, so I solved this myself. I tried almost everything I found here and on the net with no positive results. I knew the problem was more "fisical" than configuration related. The modem linked to everything but my Linksys BEFVP41so I knew it had to be something happening between the Arris modem's wan port and The Linksys router's wan port. The Router's wan port is supposed to auto-switch so you don't need a cross-over cable to connect to the modem, at least connecting it to other modems you don’t. So I made a cross-over cable and Voila!!! success the modem and router linked to each other and I now have internet access, Public Ip and the works. I hope this might help someone and thank you jmd4931 for your help.