Do you get issues with any other VPNs, ie VNs to CP firewalls? Is it only Cisco that you have probs with?
This smacks of differing negotiation timers and mismatch of renegs.
Dooglave is right about the VPN debugs, I was only really looking for any type of phase 2 negs, dont care which side it was, just to see what was set on the initiator side for the phase 2 timer. fw monitor is a bit overkill for a place like this hehe.