Is your plan to support Outlook 2010 only?
If so, then you need to use VSTO, check:
General intro:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/vsto/dd162450.aspxSample code for Outlook add-in 2007 (but still the same for 2010)
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/vsto/ee620548.aspxVSTO blogs:
http://blogs.msdn.com/vsto/I may be able to help you in 2-3 weeks time (depending on workload).