>noticed a little note that said you must use 515 on all end of the vpn
Negative.
>Can I use a 2650, 3620, and 3640 we already own on the client side of the vpn and one pix 515e with vac + card at the server side?
Sure, no problem.
Consider a new ASA 5510/5520 for much higher performance instead of the 515e
Cisco VPN client software carries no additional license costs, and works with routers, PIX, and ASA.