Hi.
It seems you need to find the function that creates and sends the NDR message that obviously goes away despite your rules. It seems odd they're for outgoing mail, though... they should be for incoming, I think. If a server starts a session and wants to send to "user@domain", and this user (or domain) is not on your server, the session should be terminated with a 550 error message "user unknown".
Sometimes such settings are not named intuitively; you may have to look around a bit, perhaps it's just something that says "Do not send NDR". The error handling will be adjustable, but it may be difficult to find the place to make adjustments...
/RID