you're almost there
forward port 25 tcp in your router, to the inside ip of your mail server...
and of course wait 24-48 hours for dns propegation to happen - it's not instant.
you can test it by telneting to your ip address from an outside connection, at port 25:
telnet 123.123.123.123 25
if you get a line that starts with 220, you're good